Lately, life decided to show me how easy it is to get deep in trouble out of no where. My reaction of course is to FIX FIX FIX, yet somethings are not fixable, nor do they need to be fixed either, they just need to be. So when the storm hits, let it pass, it will pass, as long as your integrity is intact, your principles unbroken, and your moral compass stays accurate, it will all find its way out. Out of your life and out of your realm, it will all settle peacefully if we just accept, appreciate and learn.
I woke up feeling sad, sad, sad, and had no idea why. Used to being so energetic, positive, full of dreams and goals, and ready to kill it, this was certainly an unfamiliar state for me… i gave in, I cried all day, i went to bed crying, i found ways to support my sadness, feeling alone, abandoned, completely isolated, all of it… and then… I remember Jim Rhon, Tonny Robins, Landmark, Caminos, The Servant, and so many other things that have helped me through the years in all sorts of scenarios, and started writing here in an effort to remind myself that emotions are just that, emotions, and this too shall pass, this too shall pass, being grateful for my daughter, our health, our abundance, her wonderful School, our home, our families, her father, our trip to Colombia coming up, there are so many blessings to be thankful for, and yes maybe my body is just burned out today, but not my life, there are so many things to live for. I am thankful for this one life I was given, I am thankful for me, for Hannah, for work, for learning to say NO, for learning to say YES to what I need today, which is a massage, natural juice, and sleep for a day. Good night
Is it really? Maybe it is, yet sometimes having the strength to see things from that perspective can be clouded by pain, confusion, lack of understanding, etc, and the world turns into chaos for a moment. I have been presented with a terrific opportunity that had turned into chaos, and the lesson learned here, is that there is nothing hidden between heaven and earth, and sooner or later, the truth will come out, it might very well set you free, yet you might need to experience severe damages personally, emotionally, and financially once it is all out.
For what is worth, manage your life and your business with the utmost integrity, and always tell the truth, this is and will always be your best branding, your strongest marketing and your endless source of referrals.
I truly, truly love what I do.
I went on vacation last week, and decided there is nothing to loose on doing videos on IG and FB, which i have been avoiding for years. There is so much information we can give just on our day to day business. Recently my clients were suit by the neighbor, another client was a victim of fraud and lost title of his property, client suing the developer because his 10 Million dollar home has a ghost leak that no one can find, you name it, this are extreme cases, yet we cover so much in every transaction that we can all learn from, so yes, from now on, there will be some videos on just daily routine learning, wish me luck!
That’s exactly what it is… just my thoughts, about anything and everything, so vast we will combine pretty much my experiences of 46 years, three months and three days, all of it, no editing allowed or wanted.
From packing potatoes at the age of 12 to selling multimillion dollar homes in Beverly Hills at the age of 46 we will cover what different jobs have taught me, this is not for anyone to learn anything, it is not advice on how to spend 30 years finding the right job either, it is just my thoughts, and I’m following a profound desire to write them all up.
Like the movies that go back and forth and you have to kind of follow what’s the past and what’s the present, that’s probably how I will write as thoughts come and go from all over the place when you choose to write, mostly it is your consciousness trying to do it right, fighting which memory could be more important, more impactful, which one will attract more people to read even though I have no idea if anyone will even get to that point, yet I am still writing for an audience, that’s the human nature, to share, to tell, to make sure someone can say something about what you have just done… could be just me who thinks that way, doubted though, everyone is the same, we want to succeed for someone, yes for us of course, but there is something out there we want, recognition, love, acceptance, admiration, support, validation, whatever it is I am looking for here, let’s see where it takes us….
Seth Godin, you started this, by saying no one can suck at being a bad writer, so here I am … this is for you, wherever this takes me, it was a door you open today April 3rd 2019.
It has been a dream of mine to write a blog, yet the FEAR, also known as: I don’t really have time, I do not know how to do it, I am not very tech savvy, English is not my first language, Etc, you can name the excuse, I’ll promise you I owned it as well, anything was good enough reason not to do it, until one day I heard this guy named Seth Godin on an interview, and he said “No one has ever failed at being a bad writer”; that was it… It changed my mind set in such a profound way, that in two days this whole thing was set up, and here I am.
Right now, I’m not even sure where to start, yes I am a person who’s goal is to sell homes, but who’s mission is to positively impact every person I come in contact with in a way that will transform their lives, hence the confusion on starting with real estate or with personal growth.
Inevitably I must share that right now I have been tested in such a way that connecting again with myself and my family has become my number one priority, therefore getting to show you who I really am, will be more important to me than giving you tips and tricks on buying and selling homes, specially since learning that who we are in difficult times sets a new standard for moving forward and doing things slightly different.
I feel blessed to have your time and I promise to bring value to your life though the lines of experiences I will leave here for you every day, right now we just needed to say hello and the road ahead is only bright and open.